There are many times we do this in our lives,
在我們的生活中，很多時(shí)候我們都會(huì)這樣做
even if its at an unconsciousness level.
即使你是出于無(wú)意識(shí)層面上的動(dòng)機(jī)
For example,
比如
Some people stay in terrible (or sometimes even abusive) relationships
有些人維持著十分糟糕（有時(shí)甚至是存在虐待行為的）戀愛(ài)關(guān)系里
just because
僅僅因?yàn)?/p>
they have already been committed to it for so many years.
他們多年來(lái)一直處在這樣的戀愛(ài)關(guān)系之中
Or
或者
what about sticking with a diet
堅(jiān)持一種節(jié)食方法
(for weight loss)
（其目的是為了）
that doesnt even work
卻根本沒(méi)有效果
but you already spent so much time
可是，你已經(jīng)花費(fèi)了如此多的時(shí)間
and money committing to it
和金錢(qián)致力于此時(shí)
that you dont want to let it go.
你不想放棄
I was encouraging a friend to try Intermittent Fasting
我想要?jiǎng)裾f(shuō)一個(gè)朋友嘗試間歇性斷食
but the protocol she was on
而她堅(jiān)持的節(jié)食方法
encouraged eating small meals many times a day
卻鼓勵(lì)她少食多餐
(even though it didnt yield much results),
盡管這種辦法收效甚微
but she spent too much time/money on it,
但她卻為此事花費(fèi)了許多時(shí)間和金錢(qián)
so she couldnt just let it go.
所以她不愿意放棄
These are all examples
還有許多例子
clinging to 'mistakes'
執(zhí)著于那些“錯(cuò)誤”
but cannot let it go
無(wú)法放手
because we were so committed to it.
因?yàn)槲覀円呀?jīng)深陷其中
Old Proverb :
引用一句古老的諺語(yǔ)
"The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago.
栽種一棵樹(shù)，的時(shí)間是20年前
The second best time is now."
其次就是現(xiàn)在